Sunday 5 October 2014

The 10 things you don't have to do after having sex

Improper questions, the detailed analysis of the performance or the need to sleep to "spoon". All it takes to ruin the intimacy and complicity in a sexual relationship.



You have just finished making love and an atmosphere of intimacy, complicity and emotional tension is still in the air. You have not yet regained full possession of your body and yourself, and you're still enjoying that abandonment entrancing beyond time and space.

But be careful because unfortunately the return to reality is just around the corner. Just one wrong word, a gesture inappropriate or, rather, a question inappropriate. And all that magic and the connection that was created during the sexual act goes off in a split second.

No, then, for detailed analysis and paranoid about sexual performance, durability and strength, not a "teaspoons" forced labor, no speeches demanding.

After that brief scare between what happened before and the return itself, the post - sex can be beautiful as much as the seduction or pleasure itself, without being limited to a cigarette or get dressed and leave.

Especially we women, we should put in mind that men are different from us. If you fall asleep is not because they are profoundly selfish and insensitive, but it is their physiological reaction.

We would like to immediately speak, have confirmations, feel love, but above all, we would like a double portion of pampering. But no, the man is not so. There will say "I love you" and we do not smother it with kisses and caresses, it will just relax and enjoy the moment. Just because it's been fine. And if you look with a lost expression in a vacuum, no, not thinking about anything, so you do less than ask.

Men do not like complications. The sooner we understand that they are much simpler and more immediate of us, plus the sexual awakening post will be enjoyable for both

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